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  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:02 PM
    sunsunnyshah
    I want to be adopted
    My name is Ali. I am a 22 years old Asian boy. I live in London. I want to be adopted by a European single or couple. I am very soft spoken, down to earth, caring, loving, kind hearted boy. I really need a family. Please if you are really serious about adopting. Please feel free to contact.
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:06 PM
    ScottGem
    That's not the way adoption works. In the UK adult adoptions are not allowed.
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:20 PM
    Wondergirl
    I'm guessing no one wants to adopt an adult male. BUT You are at a age and at an exciting time in your life when you can create your own family from among the people you meet and the friends you make. Join a book discussion or writers' group or go on a day tour to a scenic or historical place near London or become a volunteer at a hospital or animal shelter or food pantry. Get to know your neighbors and talk with the person sitting next to you on the bus. Are you still in school? live in apartment? have a roommate? do you have a job? Get to know the people around you every day and then branch out from there.
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:20 PM
    sunsunnyshah
    It is allowed any European man who is even a day elder than you can adopt you. Recently a 55 years old French man adopted a 35 year old Asian man. And a 39 years old Portuguese man adopted a 30 years old Asian guy. It is allowed in European law. I had a deep research on it before posting it.
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:23 PM
    sunsunnyshah
    You are right wondergirl. But this is the only thing I can't do. I can't talk to strangers first until they talk to me. That is the biggest problem I have
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:36 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sunsunnyshah View Post
    You are right wondergirl. But this is the only thing I can't do. I can't talk to strangers first until they talk to me. That is the biggest problem I have

    So how would you know if someone, a stranger, who says he wants to adopt you has your best interests in mind and won't put you into some kind of slavery or domestic duties. How have you managed to get through life so far without being able to talk to strangers? Have you been in university? Do you have a job?
  • Mar 9, 2014, 12:55 PM
    ScottGem
    Again, UK law does not allow adult adoptions. The laws may be different in other European countries, but not the UK.
  • Mar 9, 2014, 01:08 PM
    sunsunnyshah
    I have been in university. But still I am unable to talk to someone for first. But if someone starts I give excellent response that they love it.

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