Okay, so my boyfriend and I have sex mutiple times. He never wears a condom, and he doesn't orgasm easily and I can't find his hot spots so it take a while for him to get up... any suggestions? Pleaseee?

How old is he, how long have you been together. Is he healthy (high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity, etc. ) Oral sex seems to work fine for me, wear some sexy underwear, dance, tease him, role play. Find out what he likes and do it. Let him know that he can't go anywhere until you are pleased. Don't make him feel bad or obligated it may add preasure.