Some background:I asked her out two years ago and she kind of... laughed at me, mainly because she thought I wasn't being serious. Despite that we've been relatively good friends and while we don't have many classes together, we say hi to each other and are pretty all right next to each other. Recently she's been dating people (the main reason she said she didn't go out with me is that she wasn't allowed to date anyone) and I accepted that I probably wouldn't be able to go out with her. But recently I've seen her with different boys, which concerns me because I fear that she might not have the best relationships. I had a dream where we were together and then we were just chilling around, and then she walked up to me and said "I am going to give you your very first kiss." After that she gave me this AMAZING kiss which was beyond mind blowing, and we continued to kiss each other for the next few minutes. Afterwards we cuddled with each other and she started to grind me for a bit, and then a bunch of random things happened (Like me going on a road trip with my sister, me beating up my father in order to stop him from doing something bad, and me running away with the girl). So what exactly should I do about this? She seems to have rocky relationships and while I don't see her the way I did previously and don't feel as strongly attracted to her as I used to, I still care about her. Should I do anything? Ask her out? Tell her about it?

It's a dream.. dreams mean nothing. Telling her about your dreams will just freak her out and make you look like a weirdo.

Be happy with being friends... usually friendships last a lot longer if that's as far as it goes.

You mind your own business. If she has a boyfriend you don't ask her out. How old are you both? Whether she says yes or no, if she is single, I would ask her out if I liked her enough.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You mind your own business. If she has a boyfriend you don't ask her out. How old are you both? Whether she says yes or no, if she is single, I would ask her out if I liked her enough.

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Well we're both around seventeen years old. I've known her for a LONG time, years and years actually. I'm also really good friend with most of her friends and oftentimes hang out with them, if that helps any.

Same answer, you leave her alone, dreams mean little or nothing, normally they mean the opposite of what you are dreaming

Humm "around" is not the same "as"

But if you are 17, never kissed a girl ( you said dream was your first kiss)

If you have not already had them, this is a start of perhaps a life time of sexual dreams, you should hear the one I had last night...

You enjoy the dream but separate it from real life. And live your life.

You said you don't like her any more so don't let a hormone driven dream make you get carried away.