Me and my boyfriend both have HUGE ego's when it comes to one another. We are both major teases and know exactly what turns each other on.

Earlier today, we were having a conversation about him staying over at my house once I finish work tomorrow night. He then says to me, "we get to yours for 10pm, guaranteed you won't be able to resist me by 12."
So now we've both got this major confidence boost. I'm assuring him that I can resist his temptations for two hours, but he just laughs smugly and tells me he has a plan which he knows will make me "beg for him".

I'm just asking those women in particular or men even, who can give me some tips on how to restrain myself from wanting to touch him while he advances. He knows what turns me on, and exactly what to do to make sure I give in. But I just want some advice on how to stop myself from falling for it so that his ego takes a huge knock and I can prove that he really is resistible ;) It's a turn on for us both, but I'd love to be the one who doesn't give in.

What do you win if you resist? Ego may not be enough. You could always think of the abandoned puppies freezing to death all over the U.S.


Another trick would be a couple of Espressos at 9:30. You'll be too hyper for sex until well past midnight.

My take, if you look at your relationship as a game of oneupsmanship, its time to move on.

I've got to agree... this sounds like a game for teenagers... Most people want to build up each others egos (even when they are good to begin with)... not knock them down.

Sooo, what happened with the pregnancy? Did you go ahead with the termination? Is it too soon to even be thinking about having sex again?

It's a game. If you play it better than him you win. If he wins, you win. Turn him on as much as he turns you on.