I know this is long but please help me. Hi, my name is Kayla and I'm 14 years old. I have been dating this guy on and off for two years. We haven't dated in like a year but he asked me out in August. We both have dated people since then but I think he still like me since we have always come back to each other. I really like him too. Anyway we kept on breaking up because his mom hates me. When ever she caught him texting me or found out some how, she would make us break up. About two years ago me and him were talking about sex (generally not like we were going to just stupid jokes) and my mom saw the texts. She thought he wanted to have sex with me so she said this long text saying that he won't ever touch me like that. His mom flipped out saying that I was a inappropriate girl since my mom and family was and that we were to never date again. But me and him disobeyed her riles over and over again because we like each other so much. I was once in love with him. And I want to feel that love from him like before. So I told my friend to ask him out for me since she was friends with him on fb and I wasn't since his mom checked it one time so he just unfriended me a while back when we were dating because wee had to keep it a secret so we just texted and didn't fb message. (His mom checked his fb but doesn't any more since we haven't dated in a while) I'm excited to see what he will say but also scared because I'm not sure if we should date again. Please tell me if we should date or if I should forget about him. (Its been hard)

Hi I'm 14. Me and this guy have been dating on and off for 2 years. I really want to go out with him. But his mom hates me because my mom is inappropriate so she thinks that I am inappropriate because she is my mom. But I truly am NOTHING like my mom ! So when she catches him txting me or finds out that we hung out, she makes us break up. We have not dated since last June, but he asked me out in August. We have dated about 10-15 times. He keeps coming back to me because ( I know you think I'm to young ) we were in love... or at least I was. He gave me this feeling inside that I could never describe. His brother once said that my ex said I was amazing and that I was so special that he loved me and always blabbed to his cousin ( my friend) that I looked pretty or was so beautiful. He would say "Look at her, she is so beautiful, don't you think? Gosh I love her" The point is we really liked each other and he makes me feel special. I asked my friend to ask him out for me (not his cousin a different friend) and she did over fb. Should I have asked my friend to or no? Should we date again? Was this a bad choice? Why or why not?

Your sexting was inappropriate. You are going behind his mother's back. No, you don't date again, you respect your and his parents.

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Originally Posted by J_9

Your sexting was inappropriate. You are going behind his mother's back. No, you don't date again, you respect your and his parents.

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We wernt sexting we were making jokes

That does not matter. You are too young to be engaging in that kind of conversation. Jokingly or not.

His mother does not want you with him, and as a mother I wouldn't want you with my son if I saw that, so you stay away from him. Stop sneaking behind their backs unless you really want to get into trouble.

In the end, Kayla, you both are underage and have to abide by your parents rules. His mother's rule is that he can't date you. So dating him is out of the question.

Leave him alone. You are both too young and your parents don't approve.

Does not matter you will just break up again, since you are not showing anyone respect.