I want to be able to see a girl who I think is good-looking, for example, in town and strike up a conversation with her. I'm very lonely at the moment and I am desperate for a girlfriend in my life.

I know not to appear desperate, but I don't know how to talk to girl's who I think are pretty and get to know them. I would be grateful if an expert could tell me how to get friends who are girls, as I don't know HOW to approach them. Or even WHERE or WHEN to approach them. Furthermore, I go to an all boys school, so it makes things harder.

Thanks for any suggestions,
Jai

Approach her like you would approach a friend, I know its harder when you like someone but keep saying to yourself that you don't like her, there's no need to be anxious.

Just be yourself and don't try being like someone else because if your not truthful from the start it will nip you in the butt at a later date


Good luck mate

Ummm... Me being a girl is different. But you got to be brave and just be yourself. Me I really liked this one guy and now we've been going out for 2 months! I really like him. I told him! And to find out he liked me too! Just talk to her and when you talk to her for awhile and tell her how you feel.

Hope everything works out!!

Well I can tell you one thing if you don't play the game you can't win. Just go up to her and say hay, smile and look her in the eye. Women like assertive men. You know you do.

You don't need "Professional Help." You want to find a girl who likes you for you, not for someone else's personality. But all you have to do is make a few jokes (not sexual), not a lot and just start talking to her.

Here's an example.

She's talking to her friend about this amazing band that you like too. Her friend walks away and you go up and comment on the band. Say "That band is so cool. What other Bands do you like?"

Go from there..
Good luck.

Kriscool

Thank you so much everybody who has answered so far...
Please keep 'em coming.
I appreciate it,

Purple_rain92 ;)

He can't say that, women don't like guys listening into their convos. Just be out going and be yourself, just think of it as meeting new people, just go straight up to her and say, "hey, whats up, my name is ______.what's yours?" but don't say it all at once leave long pauses where possible without sounding like a dork. Try to sound like you have lots of confidence, so don't look to the ground or fidget with your clothes or move too much, look at her when your talking and when she's talking, just try to be normal, like your talking with your friends. Imagine how you talk to your friends, how you would stand, how fast you talk, WHAT you talk about, yeah, don't tell her you've never talked to girls, she might feel bad you've never been out with a girl and go out with you for the WRONG reasons, then she'll dump after like a day. But don't say you've been with lots of girls, because then she'll think you're a player, that's not a good thing. Just stay away from that subject, talk about random things. Like cars, food, music, not clothes or shopping she'll think you're a homosexual, yeah, that's all I can think of.

Just do what you do!

I mean just walk up to a girl or something and start a conversation!

The worst thing that is going to happen is that person walking away

No big deal

Good luck

Thanks matt3046, oh yeah, one more pointer, whenever you talk to girls, make sure you smell fresh and look neat and tidy and well put together and clean clothes. But also wear clothes that you feel comfortable in. Girls are only drawn to guys that appear comfortable with themselves. They see it in the way you stand, the tone of voice you speak in and the way you sit.

Hey man visit becomeaplayer.com... U don't have to become a player but it will teach u some good tecniqes

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Originally Posted by Purple_rain92

I want to be able to see a girl who I think is good-looking, for example, in town and strike up a conversation with her. I'm very lonely at the moment and I am desperate for a girlfriend in my life.

I know not to appear desperate, but I don't know how to talk to girl's who I think are pretty and get to know them. I would be grateful if an expert could tell me how to get friends who are girls, as I don't know HOW to approach them. Or even WHERE or WHEN to approach them. Furthermore, I go to an all boys school, so it makes things harder.

Thanks for any suggestions,
Jai

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Just talk to them like you talk to your guy friend... just go up to a girl and start talking to her

Nearly like everyone said, be yourself!

One time a guy behind me in line tapped me on the shoulder and held out a 20 dollar bill and he asked "Did you drop this?" I was like "I don't think so" and he said "Really? Because it was on the ground right by your feet." I know that I didn't drop it so I just shook my head and turned back around. He tapped me AGAIN and I was sort of getting annoyed but I turned back to him and he said "Hey, I just found 20 dollars, let me pay for your lunch" It was really cute, I laughed and we chatted and I decided to eat lunch with him because he was really sweet. So, just a nice little (hopefully inspirtational) anecdote for you. Haha!

Just be yourself and be confident. I think a girl doesn't like a guy who is timid, but also don't be overpowering, this works for me. Also prince is awsome(purple rain)

hi I'm rachel I'm 15 and its not that hard. I can tell you something's you might not want to do. You shouldn't go up to a totally random girl and say hi what's your name? It sucks that you go to an all boy school because it harder. Don't go up to someone and say something like "do you know karate, because your body is kickin!".. are there any girls you know that you might be into? You could slowly start talking to them. Like one day you'll see her and say hi. Then one day you would see her and give her a compliment. Like for example, "Hey i like that shirt." not "Hey, nice ." if you get what I'm saying, that should help. Maybe you could strike up a conversation with a girl you live by.