Would any men out there please help me figure out why my man wants to get right back to work as soon as we have sex? We have great sex but sometimes he not even all the pulled out and he says he's got to get back to work. I don't ask him to lay and cuddle for hours or anything but man, this baffles my mind. He is a workaholic and that's OK with me but just don't understand when he wants to run so away so fast especially on the times when he hasn't even pulled out and he says it. Please someone offer some insight.

I can say that women are often talkative after sex, feeling a sense of closeness and wanting to talk about "feelings", etc. Not sure if this applies to your situation, but perhaps there is an issue that he is afraid will come up i.e.. Marriage, kids, etc. and perhaps he is trying to avoid that topic ? Remember this is just an educated guess


Good Luck,
Morrowrj

Because he is DONE, and ready to go off onto something else.

I can't speak for him, but men in somewhat general, sex for most is just that sex, fun, and ( sorrry if this sounds bad) but at the fair, when the ride is over you don't keep sitting on the ferris wheel, you get off and go on to something else.

For many men sex is fun, great, they love it, but it is not the emotional mystery women want them to make of it.

I think you should let him know that it bothers you. Tell him he can't have it anymore if he can't spend a few extra minuets to hold you. If you talk about the sex tell him how good it was and he may start a conversation.