I am medical doctor from Egypt. I am Muslim. I've never married and aged 50 years. Imet someone on the net. He is engineer from Germany and converted to Islam ashe says he want to marry a Muslim women so he logged into Islamic site on the net where we meet. After one month from our relation he told he would come to marry me. Then he breaks his promise and explain that by telling me he have European mind and he should at least know me and see me naked. I told him that Islamic rule prevent that and I could not do that. He told me that he will solve this problem. Our relation extended up two years on the net only and he breaks all his promises of coming to my country to see me to know each other for two weeks and then marry.

Suddenly he told me that he does not like that he had relation on net cyber love andneed that in real and tell he meet a doctor in Germany and fall in love with her and he will marry her after he know her well and he sorry for me. He informed me that via text only. I told him easy like that you can leave me he says sorry. I said to him OK go for her and cut all contact with him for month but he continue to send me sms and say that so heavy for him to that and he feel guilty. Then he send me that he missed me so much and need to return back. I told him what about her. He told me he will not marry her and he need me in his life. I was so glad and forgive him because I love him and I told I well take step in our relation and I will visited him in his country and I travel there and stay with him for one week, not in his home in hotel. He promise me that he will come after two weeks to my country to marry and we are OK.

Suddenly he told me you do not let me to kiss you when I am there and you refuse to send me your naked picture of you, do not give me the minimum that I ask you. Why I give you the maximum to marry me? I told him we are Muslim and that is the rules. He say sorry, yes I Muslim, but I will marry by the European way, and I need that the kiss and naked picture for me, and he is sorry he will not marry me.

Then he gradually decrease the contact with me, delay in reply me if I send him sms. Now I do not send him any sms but he send me from time to time sms that he love me and he need me to succeed in my life. Why he act like that and what I can do now? I do not text him, just reply on him in short. Please help me. I want him to marry me.

Thank you,

Lolo

He's not going to marry you....and you shouldn't want to marry him. He sounds like a nut. He sounds like he is stringing you along and wants you to go against your religion while he is supposed to be a part of it as well...he should know the rules and the fact that he doesn't care makes me wonder if he really converted as he told you....I bet he didn't. Really, it doesn't matter...he keeps holding out and playing games. If he is doing that now, do you think he will change? He will probably keep making excuses anyway. I know it's hard to do but leave him, tell him it's over, break off contact and move on with your life. You are wasting your time with him while you could be free to find someone that will follow through on what they say.