:o hi I'm tiffanie. My ex broke up with me on wed march 28 and he said it was because I was controlling but I'm not really he just always wants to smoke and take drugs and I said no. and he said my parents talk too much sh*t because we have a long distance relationship I only saw him 5 times in my life but this summer I am positive I am going to see him but I don't know why he did it. I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me and I can't think of what to do. I still love him but I am finding it easier to move on from him because there is this new guy & he kind of has my heart I say I love you and he treats me so good but I'm stuck between the two. My ex and I are still friends and we talk on the phone sometimes he sounds like he misses me but I just can't wait for him. I'm 15 and this new guy is very sweet but I'm confused. He is long distant also and I can't see him that much either but I said I'm going to spend the whole summer with him. I really like him but I don't know anymore. I miss my ex at times but this new guy always seems to bethere for me like my ex never was. My ex was so nice to me at times and mean at others so I can't think of what to tell either one. So can someone please help me I really need it thanks :confused:

Your ex sounds immature and selfish, good riddens if you tell me.

While this new guy friend of yours seems genuinely interested in you, so take things slow you are only 15.

Why Dontchu Help Me I Know Your Reading This People?

I Went Through Almost Exactly The Same Thing As Yu But The Only Difference Is That A Had My Exs Baby! Girl You Need To Make This **** Kik Rock.. Or Bricks.. If You Don't Like These Things About Hims And Have Told Him That It Bothers You But Yet Hes Still Doing Them.. ( Which Its Very Hard For Them To Stop) Then Forget About Him And Move On There's A lot Of Men Yes Men Out There That Would Love To Be With You Im Sure! Just Take Care And God Bless

Hey Tiffianie, you are so young!
WELL I kind of went through the same thing. I lost my virginity when I was 15. My BF was very nice and then we broke up cause we couldn't get alone very well.
We dated different people. I loved him cause he was my first and I missed him so much. I guess he missed me too. We were still friends and occasionally talked. I didn't know if I felt something special just cause he was my first or what.
2 years went by and we ended up getting back together and we got married.
What I'm saying here is that you just need time. You should see other people and see if it's not lust what you feel towards your EX, if U feel that no other man can fill up the space he took in your heart then UR EX is the 1. But take UR time. UR still YOUNG! :) Oh and I'm not suggesting to get married, OK! :)