I have been loving a girl for the past 3.5 years, but now a days I noticed some of her behaviours which I don't like. I gave her the permission to watch other handsome guys just for a timepass. I have no issues on that, but one day I noticed that she was watching a guy for more than 1 hour when I was sitting near to her, but she didn't notice that I was watching her. They both made eye contacts for several times, he is a guy studying in our college itself. When I asked her about this, she said that it was just a timepass and not at all with any intention. She promised me that she don't have any affection to any other guy, but now I doubt whether she cheats me or not, because I believe that if she could watch a guy for more than 1 hour, she has some feeling to that guy. Am I right guys and girls? Or is it my prblm to think like that?

If you cannot take the word of the one you are with, I fail to see the point of being with her. Especially if you have the audacity to give "permission" for such a thing. No doubt she knows you watch her like a hawk when she does.

If she didn't before, she certainly does now, but are you over reacting or has she got something up? I don't know, but after 3 and a half years you should know. One incident doesn't make a pattern or trend, so if that's all you got, then for now from what you have written its more you than her. She said it was timepass. Why don't you believe that, and where were you for an hour?

Yes, any man who thinks, he can "give permission" to a women to do anything, will soon lose her. I can not believe she has hung around this long.

She is always free to do what she wants, and men and women often look at others, You I am sure, check out other women, does not mean you will cheat.

Time to consider what real relationships are about, honestly sounds like you don't have a clue, sounds more Jr High

LMAO! You gave her permission to look at other guys? Really?

I would have told you where the door was if I was her.

SO anyway, because you timed her looking at someone, and your timer said 1 hour, then you are concerned she must be cheating....You have some deep issues within yourself that you need to think about. You will never have a normal relationship if you act and think like this.

If she is not cheating (which she probably isn't) she ought to be tired of you.
You gave her permission to look at a guy? Please!
Do you look at other women for longer than a few minutes?
This must be a cultural thing because I don't understand a girl willing going for this.