Met a girl in a bar while on travel. We went back to my hotel room and had sex. I used a condom - of course. Next morning as I was waking up, she started some more intimacy. Ended up inside of her, but after a bit I stopped it and got a condom. I didn't even come after putting the condom on. Yes I know that you can get pregnant with pre-come... and I was stupid for not stopping her before. Even after the condom I didn't come because I was freaked out. She started calling me the next day and the day after and got kind of creeped me out with her voice mails so I decided not to answer her needy calls. When I first met her I chalked her weirdness up to her being from Nigeria (I love accents) but now I think she is a little deranged. She left another voice mail recently saying she is pregnant. I have no idea what to do or if this is true. She is in a different city, but I can't sleep and I am stressed out. What say you internet!!

There is a slim chance you passed sperm when you had sex. And of course condoms have a 3 to 18 percent chance of failure also.

So yes there is a small chance you could be the father, if she is pregnant. Of course a women who just goes home with you and has sex, most likely also does this with many other men all the time also.

She messaged you every day, well you had sex, perhaps she expected the sex meant something and you wanted a relationship??



So when the baby is born you request a DNA test to find out if you are the father, there is nothing else you can do at this point.

How long after you saw her was she claiming that she was pregnant?

Sounds like it could be a scam to me. She may be looking for a payoff or looking for a father to cover a past engagement? You could possibly contact the police if she asks for money as in a blackmail type scheme. But otherwise, as chuck said you gotta wait it out and may have to rely on the DNA test.

Avoid her until the baby is born and request a test. Like the others asked how much time between doing the deed and her claims of pregnancy has it been?