I try to act and be myself and treat him like every other person but with a little extra more attention and niceness but I don't know if it's working.
I've been working with a guy for a few months now and I can't tell if he likes me or not. I work in a male dominated field. I finally got along with all the guys that I've been working with and they don't mind it if I walk and talk with them while we are on the property. When he's there, I kind of get left out and he's more interested in walking and talking with the guys. When I see him, I usually say hi and smile at him and he gives me a big smile with his sparkly eyes. I've noticed that he has a lot of female friends, but I've heard his friends basically say that either he's never had a girlfriend or rarely has one, and I know that he is not gay. We've been at parties twice so far.
The first time, I went up to him and we talked a little, but as the night went on, he wondered off somewhere else. The second time, I didn't bother going up to him that time. Instead, I kind of kept an eye on him. I did notice at the corner of my eye that he would be looking at me. I've touched him twice and I think I scared him when I did, but he has touched my hands and my face once, but that's it. Since the new year, we have been able to talk to each other more through work and home. We worked together for a few hours and we had a good time talking about things and we smiled and laughed, too.
One night he texted me and asked about how things were going at my place and we also talked about how things were going at his place. The talk lasted for a little over an hour. The next night, his texts were short and seemed disinterested, so I stopped texting him. That was last night and I don't know what I should do.
