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  • Dec 27, 2013, 09:56 PM
    Mckpuppet
    How to get a boy to like you when you are 11
    I want to know how to get an 11 yr old boy to like you more than a friend I don't want you to respond with its not your dissension its your parents dissension and I don't want you to say that you are to young to date.
  • Dec 27, 2013, 10:58 PM
    odinn7
    You are too young to date. Be a kid for now...there is plenty of time for this garbage when you get older.
  • Dec 28, 2013, 01:21 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    You are a child, and we do not care what you want. All you want is someone to agree to poor choices and bad behavior.

    Sorry you are too young to date. You just be friends.
  • Dec 28, 2013, 01:29 AM
    J_9
    You are too young to date, whatever that means at 11 years old, without your parents permission.
  • Dec 28, 2013, 06:55 AM
    Cat1864
    Quote:

    I want to know how to get an 11 yr old boy to like you more than a friend I don't want you to respond with its not your dissension its your parents dissension and I don't want you to say that you are to young to date.
    It may not be my decision (choice), but my opinion is in dissention (doesn't agree) with your desires.

    You do not say how old you are, but at eleven he is definitely too young to be thinking of liking someone as more than a very good friend. If you are his age, then you need to slow down and don't try to grow up too fast. If you are older, 13/14 or older, you need to leave an eleven year old alone.

    This is a subject you need to discuss with at least one of your parents. It is part of their job to guide you through these types of growing pains. It is also their job to adjust the rules as you grow up to fit the age and maturity that you show at this time.

    You may disagree with their rules, but they are the ones you have to live by.

    Enjoy learning how to make lasting friendships which are a lot more important than getting someone to like you as 'more than a friend.'
  • Dec 28, 2013, 06:58 AM
    ScottGem
    Sorry but you don't get to tell us how we can answer your posts. The fact of the matter is, if you want more than being just friends your parents have to give permission. If they are good parents they will tell you are too young. Don't try to grow up too fast. At 11 boys are not that interested in being more than friends.

    P.S. look up the word dissension.
  • Dec 28, 2013, 01:36 PM
    Alty
    Fact is, the law is very clear about things like this. At 11, you don't have the legal right to make choices like this, because you're not mature enough to make them. So yes, it's up to your parents. If they won't let you date, you don't date. What you want really doesn't matter, because you're not old enough to be responsible for these types of decisions (notice the spelling).

    It's really cute that you demand that people don't post the facts. If you want someone that will agree with you, give you advice that isn't valid, then ask your friends. We won't tell a child how to get another child to be romantically interested in her.
  • Jan 7, 2014, 07:21 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You can't get someone to like you, especially someone who is too young to even be interested.

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