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Ok there's been a lot of post lately by young females saying that there men just aren't into them anymore or there sex drive has declined etc etc, So here's my question Why are you not giving us girls whom you supposivly love and can't live w/o the attention we need why are you occuping all your time on the internet with porn, gameing, your cars etc? What can us young girls do to get the attention we are wanting from you?
All too often I've heard common talks from both sides of the fence, about things going sour.
Here's my view, as a 21 year guy.
We get used to things, used to seeing you everyday, used to smells, used to clothes, everything.
Now you have 2 options, most immediately go for option 1. which is , "Quick, change your perfume, dress sexier, do what he likes"
Now I won't lie, sometimes this works, but really I think, at what cost? Are you really just going out of your way or is this what you want?
Option 2 is do what you did when you started dating. Now wait, don't sit and pout and say "I am!" Sit down and analyze yourself. Think about it, what did you do when you were FIRST dating? For example, I used to write love letters to my fiancé. I used to surprise here with flowers in her car. Do I do these things now? I'll admit, I'm not sitting on a high horse, no I'm not.
So as to an answer why aren't we giving the attention needed? We've become so set in our ways, so lax in our methods, we've forgotten true excitement, like when we first started dating. We all too often try to find our missing pyschological excitement else where, like internet porn, videogames, cars, something to fill that void, in which you all belong.
-Matt
Hello, I am a male and I'm giving you my opinion on this. Do something for your man that he doesn't ask you for, but shows that you really thought of what he likes or is into more than he expected you to care. Like if he likes video games, don't just buy him a video game, I mean you can do that but do the research on one that he really likes, and on top of that be able to play it with him or at least know what's going on in the game, show excitement with him! I guarantee you his hands will be on you by the time he's made his first save point.
Another way is, basically give your man head. Sounds simple maybe, but try doing it when he didn't direct you to do it. Just out of the blue do it and do it well. You don't have to do this all the time as he might start expecting it, but do it when he really didn't think you would do that, maybe while he is driving, maybe he's painting the kitchen, maybe he's on the phone ( watch him smile if you do that!) Trust me I'm a man and I know that I have been more aroused by this, and give more attention to women who know about this.
If he likes sports, surpise him with tickets to a game, pick him up for work, take him to dinner, and then before the end of the meal surprise him with the tickets, then you both go check out the game, guaranteed he's going to repay you with an orgasm into the afterlife! Touchdown!
If he lives somewhere where nobody may see, next time you both get to his place or your place, stop and bend over before he can get the door open, grind him and do it right there!
I have more, tell me if you'd like to hear them
By the way, men do not want cologne, deodorant, and ties, that's bs! let his kids get him those things one day..
Man I didn't know female are more interested in sex... well anyway guyz to stuff like this most of them have no gats to do so... ehhehe... unlike me heehhe.. so any... all you have to do is ask... or show sign... or maybe try ddoing sexy stuff
Not all of us are guilty of this! It comes down to who you ladies choose as a partner. Plus relationships and sex are a two way street remember.Quote:
Originally Posted by ncgirl_21
I'm a young female and I find it odd to generalise a certain age bracket of this issue.
Porn, car freaks come in all age brackets.
I think the real problem is, are we mature, knowledgeable enough to help ourselves in this situation.
I think it comes down to the maturity of the guy, not every guy is the same. it depends on a few things, how serious the relationship is, his age, experience.
It doesn't matter how old the guy is he will never ever stop egnoring his girlfriend or wife. They will never stop watching porn or playing with there "man toys" its just the way there world is today, and man are pigs.
well I'm a 20 year old male and I was with the same girl 5 years we hit that slump of me not giving it to her like we did before. With a lot of guys we are the dominator in the situation but it goes both ways. You want to get him going like the early years take control a few times be the one to start it off. Throw some toys in or try new things. But you be the one to initiate it because I'll almost guarantee you that he's afraid to try new stuf and initiate it because he is used to the way you always did it. Change it up and he will be all about you. My current girl and I hit that slump about 2 weeks ago. She walked in front of the t.v. while I played a game and I looked at her funny then realized she had nothing on and had 2 pairs of handcuffs with her. I droped the remote and never made it to the next sacepoint in the game. Try random things. Best of luck
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