My daughter got the top of her was pierced with a gun 6 says ago. The ear is red and very sore. What can I do - she won't let me touch it cause it's too sore

If she wanted the piercing then impress on her if she wants to keep the way it looks she has to bathe it with salt water, with a clean cloth, not cotton swabs. Once she gets this under control the soreness will go away. Soreness for six days is normal

Ouch, I got the same thing, getting the top pierced with a gun is not so great, in theory is should be made with a needle that is more thick that gun and a bit rounded. It will hurt for even longer time for sure. All you can do is apply piercing healing solutions, nothing else.