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I'd recommend making a list of things that you want to do in the short term only. Hang that list up so that you see it when you go to sleep and when you wake up and start working on those things. The more you focus on those things the better you'll start to feel and less you'll think of her.

I also recommend that if you don't have a gym membership you get one. Working out is a great way to get out of the house but also make yourself feel better. Get on a elliptical or stairmaster and just go for 10 or 15 minutes. Get off and rest and then do it again for another 10 or 15 minutes. I promise you, you won't be thinking about anything else other than what your doing. Plus it's healthy for you. Even if you don't get a gym membership take a walk, and go for long ones if you have the time. It gets you out the house, clears you head, and makes is healthy for you. If you have something else you like that's physical do that. Anything that creates motion in your body is good for you.

Pretty sure I was talking about a guy! Not a girl

I wonder why he left.

I am glad Chuff understood what you were referring to when all you posted was "It's been 6 years!" I would not have figured it out at all. Would have had to ask for further information.

Oh it looks like Michy did some editing. She had a boyfriend that dumped her 6 years ago that she hasn't got over. He's moved on and had a child ans she still thinks about him. She was looking for advice on how to move on but I guess she wasn't that serious and wants to continue thinking about him. Why she felt the need to edit that I have no idea.