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  • Dec 17, 2013, 08:48 AM
    jlhawj
    Whose the father
    I had
    Sex after my menstrual. Is it still possible to be pregnant?
    I had intercourse the Nov 19-20th. With my exbf. No intercourse with him after that. Then I had intercourse with my boyfriend nov 27th- dec1st. I did a online calculations it says I'm 4wks. Pregnant any way to c who the father is without involving dna test?
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:03 AM
    Wondergirl
    Have you missed a period, waited two more weeks, and done an HPT? In other words, do you even know for sure you are pregnant? (Online calculators are not reliable.)

    No, there is no way to figure out who the father is (too close to call). A DNA test will have to be done after the baby is born.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:07 AM
    jlhawj
    Yes I have taken a hpt. Ive taken 2. Both came out positive. Im nvr one to cheat. But this mistake happened with my ex. The calculations says I'm 6wk. But I'm not feeling any pressure on my bladder. So I'm assuming I'm 2wks.. n mayb my boyfriend is the father. Im really hoping he is.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:17 AM
    Wondergirl
    If you got pregnant the end of November, there wouldn't be any symptoms yet. And you tested too early.

    How can you be six weeks along when you had sex with your ex four weeks ago?

    Did you use first urine of the morning for testing?
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:25 AM
    jlhawj
    No symptoms that's why I am assuming I'm not too far along. I usually get my menstrual around 14-20 of every month. This month dec. I didn't get it. I took a urine hpt sat the 14th n the evening and sun the 15th n the early morning but came out positive.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:27 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jlhawj View Post
    No symptoms that's why I am assuming I'm not too far along. I usually get my menstrual around 14-20 of every month. This month dev. I didn't get it. I took a urine hpt sat the 14th n the evening and sun the 15th n the early morning but came out positive.

    You had sex with your ex only a month ago (and with your bf very recently). It's too early to test and get clear results.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:30 AM
    J_9
    False positives happen, but they are very rare. Unfortunately, you won't know who the father is until a DNA test is performed after the baby is born.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 09:31 AM
    jlhawj
    Well unless the hpt is wrong,it says I am. I hve a doc appt but the earliest I hve is jan. The only accurate date is to hve an ultra sound.
    But still no period?

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