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  • Dec 16, 2013, 02:42 PM
    krissy921
    Is this miscarriage?
    I'm still not sure if I'm really pregnant but I think I'm already 6-8 weeks because I missed my period for the last month and had pregnancy symptoms like nausea and fatigue for just a few days.

    Last December 11, my boyfriend fingered me and rubbed his manhood in my vagina and tummy. Also tried to insert his manhood just for a few seconds. I had stomach ache right after and until the next day. On December 14, I had a heavy to light bleeding, cramps, feeling nauseous and my entire body was in pain although not too much. It was like I am having my menstruation. But for the next day, I had just light bleeding until now.

    Am I having a miscarriage? Is this a serious matter to be checked by a Doctor?
  • Dec 16, 2013, 08:09 PM
    Alty
    Last December 11? As in December 11 2012? If that's the case, that was a year ago. If you're talking about this past December 11, that was 5 days ago, so how would you be 6-8 weeks pregnant?

    Your question really doesn't make any sense.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 05:43 AM
    krissy921
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    Last December 11? As in December 11 2012? If that's the case, that was a year ago. If you're talking about this past December 11, that was 5 days ago, so how would you be 6-8 weeks pregnant?

    Your question really doesn't make any sense.

    I'm sorry. I will post again the same question and try to explain everything. Thank you by the way.
  • Dec 17, 2013, 03:53 PM
    Alty
    No need to start another thread. Just post more details here.
  • Dec 19, 2013, 03:25 PM
    krissy921
    On October 15, 2013, Me and my Boyfriend had sex. It was my first time having sex. After a week or 2, I had pregnancy symptoms like nausea, vomiting, and fatigue but it only lasted for a few days. I'm still not sure if I'm really pregnant but I think I'm already 6-8 weeks because I missed my period for the month of October. Honestly, I'm afraid to take pregnancy test.

    On December 11, we had sex for the second time. My boyfriend fingered me and rubbed his manhood in my vagina and tummy. Also tried to insert his manhood just for a few seconds. I had stomach ache right after and I was frequently urinating until the next day.

    On December 14, I had a heavy to light bleeding, cramps, feeling nauseous and my entire body was in pain although not too much. It was like I am having my menstruation. But for the next day, I had just light bleeding until December 18.

    Am I having a miscarriage? Is this a serious matter to be checked by a Doctor?
  • Dec 19, 2013, 03:33 PM
    CravenMorhead
    This is a matter to be checked out by a doctor regardless of the answers given. If you ever have to ask the question then the answer is automatically yes.

    Take the pregnancy test. Know for sure so you can either get prenatal treatment or figure out what has screwed up your cycle.

    Just as a curiosity, how old are you and your boyfriend? Was he a virgin too? Is there a chance of getting a STD from him? I want you to get tested for that too.
  • Dec 19, 2013, 03:36 PM
    Alty
    Okay, that makes a bit more sense.

    Pregnancy symptoms don't start a week or 2 after sex. The first symptom of pregnancy is a missed period. So the nausea, vomiting, and fatigue, which lasted a few days at most 2 weeks after sex, was due to something else.

    Fact is, we can't diagnose online, no one can, it's impossible to do. Pregnancy can only be diagnosed with urine, blood, or an ultrasound in later pregnancy. We can't access any of that, and symptoms mean nothing, as pregnancy symptoms are also symptoms of hundreds of other things.

    We also can't diagnose if you're having a miscarriage.

    It's time to put on your big girl pants and take a pregnancy test. You did the deed, and there are consequences, ones you have to face. So take a pregnancy test first thing in the morning, with your first pee of the day. If it's negative wait and see what happens with your next period. If it's positive, you're pregnant.

    As for seeing a doctor, that's up to you, only you can decide that.

    Good luck.

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