I'm a African American gay male,who's in love with a man that I have been having sex with off and on for the last five yrs.I'm not sure how he feels about me,but when I ask he always says he loves me... Both our family know that we have been seeing each other on the low due to some bs that came about. Still he doesn't want to be see in public together and it hurts so I'm real confused can you tell me what's going on.