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  • Dec 12, 2013, 10:23 PM
    phuoc_thien70
    What should I do?
    This girl and I met months ago, we hung out and talk a lot. We do all the couple things but she told me what we are doing isn't fair for me because she still has feeling for her ex. Unsure about how her feels even though she knows that he's gay. What should I do, should I wait, or should I move on?

    I'm so lost because I know she likes me but she still has feeling for her ex, I like her a lot to give up.
  • Dec 12, 2013, 10:29 PM
    J_9
    Move on. She still has feelings for her ex, she can't be committed to you until she moves on from him.
  • Dec 12, 2013, 11:09 PM
    phuoc_thien70
    She only dated this guy for a month and they broke up nearly a year ago
  • Dec 12, 2013, 11:35 PM
    odinn7
    So the kid she dated was gay...they dated for a month and broke up a year ago....but she's still hung up on him?

    You're wasting your time.
  • Dec 13, 2013, 07:50 AM
    talaniman
    Take your rejection like a man, and back off, and keep your dignity and self respect. You obviously don't know her true feelings, nor understand what she has told you. So back off and move on.

    You want what you can't have, and just can't see she doesn't want to be your girl friend. Hangout buddy with no titles and commitments, but no romance. Friend zone, and that's it.
  • Dec 13, 2013, 08:07 AM
    joypulv
    He's an excuse. She's using him as a crutch to keep you at arm's length. She should have been over him by now. I'd tell her in a nice way that you have to go, and why. If you say it the right way she might see what she's doing.

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