I was adopted at birth and it was a closed adoption.
When I was adopted I was a newborn baby. I just found out I was adopted at 21. My parents finally decided to tell me after all these years although they didn't know that my friend had told me I was long before they did, but I didn't really believe him. I always had suspicion I didn't come from this family, I don't have any of my parents features I look nothing like my dad either. But anyway they told me I was adopted and when I asked them who was my mother they said she don't want to be known. I don't know why they waited all these years to tell me this. Then mother gets emotional and starts crying saying saying she wanted a baby so bad and when she took me she was so happy.
I was a little upset about being adopted. I called my gma and asked if I had any siblings, she said my mom gave birth to 2 or 3 before me that she kept and she had 2 after me, one that died, and one that lived, a girl which is my little sister that also got adopted by a doctor. That's all they know about her we don't know where she is or anything. My gma even told me they saw her at a restaurant one of the workers told them where she worked at and I guess they followed her there.
Now what upsets me is that my adoptive parents never told me this and I'm getting all my info from my gma and aunt instead of my parents. I get the feeling they don't want me to find her but I really want to know where I come from and who is my blood family. They say they don't know her name but how is it they told them where she work and how many kids she had but don't know her name? Any way I really want to find her I'm 21 now. My gma told me she had told her mom I died at the hospital that really made me feel bad and knowing she just left me there like a dog. I really would love to meet my siblings especially my little sis. I don't know where to start.
I need help sorry this is so long but I wanted to say as much as I could because I hate the fact that I'm adopted. So if anybody can help please help me.