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  • Dec 7, 2013, 12:58 PM
    ayush991
    One sided love
    Hello,

    I am in a very bad position. I like a girl very much. I love her sooo much, I can't live without her, I can die for her. But she said I consider you as a friend. Now please tell me what should I do? One thing is very clear that I can't imagine my life without her. She is very sweet, whenever I see her I feel very happy like out of the world. It's my humble request to you that please save my love, life.
  • Dec 7, 2013, 05:44 PM
    talaniman
    You do like the rest of us who get our hearts broken by being rejected by that great love we want so bad. Cry for three days, and then get back to our lives we had without them. We heal, move on and try again when we find someone else.
  • Dec 7, 2013, 05:46 PM
    askme28
    How does she act around you? Does she act differently around other people? I might tell her how I feel if I were you. That's all I got, hope things work out, :)
  • Dec 7, 2013, 06:03 PM
    Homegirl 50
    You accept the fact that she does not love you and move on. It will hurt for a while, but you'll get over it.
  • Dec 7, 2013, 07:59 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    It is not love. Sorry, love takes both people feeling the same. And you will not die without her, because you do not have her now.

    You go on with life, and just find someone else.
  • Dec 9, 2013, 06:54 AM
    Oliver2011
    "I can't live without her" - that isn't love.

    "I can die for her" - neither is this.

    "One thing is very clear that I can't imagine my life without her." That is a ridiculous statement. You can imagine your life without her because it is like every day of your existence.

    In other words if you act around her like the words you have written, you are showing yourself to be very immature. What girl wants to be around a needy clingy boy? No girl wants that. You are incapable of love until you understand what true love is. Find out what true love is because it is wonderful. What you have written below isn't anything close to love.
  • Dec 9, 2013, 10:22 AM
    _init_
    I had this same problem about a year ago. I thought I was in love with a girl, and that she was the only one for me. She said that we were friends, and I wanted more than that, so I was constantly by her side, a clingy, needy, immature boy. I've grown up a little bit, since then, and I have gotten over her, and so will you.

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