My partner told me that he thinks my friend is very desirable and he also fancies her he is always staring at her when we go down our social club so I think he would like to have sex with her because of the way he looks at her do I get rid of him after 5 years

Or you share him, what do you want to do?

I told her what he said and she said that as far as she is concerned he is just a friend she said she has not encouraged him my partner said that he would only make a play for her if we broke up should we stop going to our social club and then he can't see her there any more .