Mom and dad divorced at birth
I am 14 years old and live in Iowa my mom and dad divorced when I was born and I haven't met my mom ever. My mom recently found me and we've been talking secretly from my father. My father is not very fond of her and says he doesn't want me talking to her. I want to visit my mom but if I asked my father he would say absolutely not. Do I have any legal rights to decide for myself If I have the right to visit her or is it up to my father or does my mother have a legal right to visit me?
Thanks,
Brad