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  • Nov 17, 2013, 06:08 AM
    Tangy240
    Should I tell my boyfriend this ?
    When I was like young I did bad stuff with a girl. No, I am not a lesbian, am not interested in dating girls, or doing anything with a girl, but am 17 now and I wanted him to stop lying to me because he was with different girls and stuff and I wanted him to tell me how many kids he had. Am I lying if I don't tell him this part of my life?
  • Nov 17, 2013, 08:04 AM
    Homegirl 50
    What you did when you were young is none of his business. What you did is pretty much normal. How old is he that he has so many kids? If you don't trust him, leave him.
    How long have you been dating?
  • Nov 17, 2013, 09:10 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    What he did and who he was with before he meet you, is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. Who you were with before is NONE OF HIS.

    If he has children by other women, how old is he ? But you telling him is not going to make him tell the truth
  • Nov 17, 2013, 02:18 PM
    Tangy240
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    What you did when you were young is none of his business. What you did is pretty much normal. How old is he that he has so many kids? If you don't trust him, leave him.
    How long have you been dating?

    6 months and he is 16... He is my first boyfriend and am in love with him. We have not done any sexual stuff I just love him so much.
  • Nov 17, 2013, 04:19 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Well how many kids could he have a 16?
    After dating only 6 months, I think you are being ridiculous and are way too serious.
    Slow it way down. He does not owe you any explanations and you don't owe him any.
  • Nov 23, 2013, 07:37 PM
    rikku3464
    Guys I understand were you are all coming from, but she is 17, still going threw hormones. Hun they are right, who you both were with before shouldn't matter, but if he is cheating on you. TRUST ME LEAVE. My mom and I have both been cheated on and stayed, it ended BAD. But if he is not then your OK. It depends on what he is lying about though. Because my boyfriend now does lied to me. But doesn't cheat. I would woop him.(not really, just talk) I love my boyfriend very very much. I have fought for him, with many people even my own parents, and so with him its working out great. Rough with everything going on at home and stuff, which puts lots of stress on both of us. But like I said if he is not cheating on you, then that's great. Not a lot of guys don't. So like I also said, it depends on what he's lying to you about. Trust your instincts that is your best factor. Most definitely as a women
  • Nov 23, 2013, 08:29 PM
    talaniman
    If you cannot accept his word, don't give him your heart. To love someone you don't trust is not love, but dependence, like a junkie needing his dope to feel better.

    Your past is none of his business, and his past is not your business.
  • Nov 23, 2013, 08:36 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    When I was like young I did bad stuff with a girl. No, I am not a lesbian, am not interested in dating girls, or doing anything with a girl, but am 17 now and I wanted him to stop lying to me because he was with different girls and stuff and I wanted him to tell me how many kids he had. Am I lying if I don't tell him this part of my life?
    Do you know for a fact that he has any kids with these other girls he messed around with? So he's a parent and he won't tell you how many children he has?

    Frankly, if he's spreading his seed around that much, and he's only 16 now, I'd leave before you become one in what seems to be a long line of baby momma's he's left behind.

    But demanding to know his past, that's not your right, nor is it his right to demand to know about your past.

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