I'm currently single after ending a relationship about a month ago. I've been going out with my friends a lot and having lots of fun being single. Recently two of my male friends told me they like me more than a friend. I don't like either of them in that way and I told them both that. One said yeah thts fine but won't stop asking to meeet me, and the other keeps saying we have a connection and that he thinks we should be together. I keep telling him but he just doesn't seem to get it! Plu there's this one guy that I've liked for a while, now I'm single and he's single I was thinking of saying sumin but what hppens if he says no or the two other guys find out? My god I'm so confused!! HELP!! :confused: :confused:

Its nobody's business but yours and who you like.

What is there to be confused about?

You do not,[And you told them both the same,]want to be with either of them in that way. So tell them again and that the answer is and will always be NO.

It's a smart idea to take a break after a relationship to find yourself anyway.-- Savage

Hi dear,

It's very easy to be confused in live. But don't let it take over u.
Talaniman is absolutely correct. Its ur life, and its you to decide.

Best of luck

What happens if the guy you like says no?? Well those other two guys you told no didn't die from embarrassment did they? Now that we have determined that your life isn't at risk I would go for it. ;) You can't make everyone in the world happy but you can make yourself happy! Go for it

what's the problem? Nothing to be confused about, the solution is simple, your 2 guy friends that like you... well if you don't like them, you don't like them, just ignore them and they'll get the hint, trust me, they will still stick around to be your friend, guys don't respond well to rejection, the respond better to absolute ignorance (hard-headed) and as for the guy you like, just hang out with him, get to know him better, flirt with him, see how he reacts, then take it from there, if the other 2 guys find out, so what? That's their problem, you're not responsible for their feelings and you shouldn't feel obligated to please them. Good luck!! =)

Follow your heart!

The rest comes after...

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Originally Posted by saz25

im currently single after ending a relationship about a month ago. ive been goin out with my friends alot and havin lots of fun bein single. Recently two of my male friends told me they like me more than a friend. i dont like either of them in tht way and i told them both tht. one said yeh thts fine but wont stop asking to meeet me, and the other keeps sayin we have a connection and tht he thinks we should b together. i keep telling him but he just doesnt seem to get it! plu theres this one guy tht ive liked for a while, now im single and hes single i was thinking of sayin sumin but wat hppens if he says no or the two other guys find out?! my god im soo confused!!! HELP!!!:confused: :confused:

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Don't sweat it! Quit worring about all those guys--if u have that many after you u must be "HOT"

Another will come to take their place--remember most guy want one thing--yes--its that thing! They pretend to be friends--then get what they need and want--then go away--im a guy i know what some of those dogs do! So go with the heart--be aggressive--guys like that--and if he doesn't respond--his loss--and u find a new more caring guy! Good luck sweet one!

Let me see, you don't want to go out with the other two, the other two don't really care that you don't want to, and hope they may just hook up with your anyway. ( sort of think about dogs chasing the female dog in heat sort of thing, they will not take no even if you find someone most likely) and you don't want to go out, so why care if they care

On the one you like, worst case he says no and you feel a little hurt, that is the wost that can happen