Ive been with my partner for 3 years now and we have 2 children. He has always been abe to ejaculate apart from when he has had to much to drink. But lately he can't at all no matter what I do or we do there's nothing.

We have been through a few rough patches lately i.e arguments etc. Is he cheating? Is it that he don't find me attractive anymore?

Its really starting to get to me and upset me please help?

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Originally Posted by lisaleah2010

Ive been with my artner for 3 years now we have 2 chidren, he has always been abe to apart from when he has had to much to drink,
But lately he can't at all no matter what I do or we do there's nothing.
We have been through a few rough patches lately i.e arguments etc
Is he cheating?
Is it that he don't find me attractive anymore?
Its really starting to get to me and upset me please help? /

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How old are you both?

Having two kids in three years is huge and life changing, more than starting and keeping a relationship together.As well as the stress of conflict in the relationship. It isn't hard to believe that isn't able to preform. Has he had a medical examination any time recently? He might want to go look into that. How has the relationship's intimacy been outside the bedroom? Hugging, kissing, and the like?

Is he cheating on you? Probably not. Do you think he is cheating on you? Is there proof?
He is probably finding you quite attractive. He's had two kids with you.

Sex will wax and wane during the relationship, especially when there is stress and exhaustion. It could be that he's trying but there is too much on his mind to finish. Could be a medical problem. Have you talked to him about this?