Still in love with family friend's relative who never told me he had a girlfriend
I have no idea what to do. I am miserbly in love with a loser. All I do is think about him. About three years ago I met this guy that was my father's best friend's nephew and there was something about him right away. I am not the kind of person that become attracted to just anyone especially right away. We started becoming friends but he had to go back to Michigan. He was gone about a year and I thought about him a lot. About a year later he returned and surprised me with a phone call. At the time I was very busy with school and my sister had just given birth to a little girl that I was in the process of taking cusotdy of. It took me a couple of weeks to call him back. I had to jump throgh hoops to even figure out where he was living at the time. When I finally reached him we hung out a lot at night. Things were moving in a positive direction then one night he told me that we should stop what we were doing because we would never work out with him being my dad's best friend's nephew. Like an idiot I still pursued him because I really liked him and felt that that was ridiculous reason. He never seemed to want me to come to his place of work. When he stopped returning phone calls I just had to see him so I went to the place that he worked and instantly knew something was wrong. That is when he told me that he had a girlfriend. I was mortified and I had never been so angry in my life. I left and I had not spoken to him in two years even though I have seen him about five times at different parties and events. After seeing him all I can do is think about him. It drives me crazy. Lately he has been coming around more and I want so badly to talk to him but I know that his girlfirend is getting ready to kick him out. I don't want him to think that I am to eager and I am afraid that I will take him back. I want to but I know it would be a mistake and I would look like a fool. Help!
