What should I do about constant arguing with my partner, and abuse?
Me and my partner have been together for 4 years, we're not engaged and have lived together for 3 years. For the past year we have had some major tiffs and arguments, mainly she's upset and takes it out on me or just gets angry over nohing over a little mistakes. Could be she dropped something, late by 10 minutes or didn't cook dinner.
Past year its escalated where I feel it's Jekyll and Hyde with her. Randomly she'd start an argument (usually after a glass of wine) and end up calling me all names under the sun, throw glass at wall, about and on 4 occasions hit me and strangled me. I love her and she says she loves me and can't live without me but yet treats me with not much respect and like a kid. I have been kicked out the house and left as it felt like the best thing to do so she can cool off but she won't leave it at that. She'd text or call.me telling me she's cursed me and my family will die and she's going to kill herself.
I just don't know what to do. I feel we are pushed so apart now that it feels like we are just two best friend's living together.
If she does something wrong or hurt herself she always blames me and tells me to apologize. Lately I've been saying no as I have nothing to say sorry for, as you bumped your arm yourself or knocked a cup. She then gets argumentative and tells me to say sorry cause I upset her. I've done nothing wrong.
I'm in another room now because I sat on the office chair for 5 seconds to check the weather and she demanded I say thank you to her cause she was at the desk before and she allowed me on it. Resulted in her getting name calling again and arguing.
What should I do?