Met a guy he said he likes me, but I know he chats to other girls. He says there's no competition as he like me a lot. But only hear of him if I message first. He says he's just busy. I told him I am going to leave it, but he told me he would be upset and a shame. We have had oral sex and he wants to come see me on the weekend. I am confused.

Expect a meaningless and short relationship. If you don't know him that well, why would you move forward with a physical relationship first?

Sounds like just sex to me. You don't know each other well enough for there to be anything else. He does not even contact you. You can see him on the weekend if you want, but there should be no sex of any kind. Get to know each other.

Don't be confused. You are his oral sex buddy and he likes you because of it. You are one of many, his weekend friend with oral benefits.