Girlfriend wants to be single, Still love her and she reciprocates
My (ex) girlfriend and I started dating back freshman year in college and we are both now juniors. It was one of those "love at first sight" things. We met and I couldn't get her off my mind, and finally, 6 months later we started dating. We have been happily dating since then, however, things had gone into a rut starting about 2 or 3 months ago. We were supposed to celebrate our 2 year anniversary last week, however, she said that she wanted to "be single for a while". Just a little background, she met a new girl from her college that she has been hanging out with a lot recently, and they both decided to go down to San Diego for Spring Break. I did not protest because she always says that I try to keep her from her friends, so I thought this was a good opportunity to show her that I want her to have friends and be close with them. So I went home for break for some job interviews, and she went down to san diego. So 3rd night of spring break I get a call and 2 hours later, long fight, she had grinded with some guys at a club, and so on and so forth. At the end of this set of conversations we both decided she would come home early from her break and we would move on. However, when she came back, she had completely changed her mindset, so I talked her back into our relationship saying that we both need to change a lot of things, but the next day, she would be back to wanting to be single. So I accepted this, I'm giving her space, and I haven't contacted her in 3 days, however, she called me and said she wanted to hang out. She wanted to get brunch, but I said that I'm not your friend now, I'm your ex-bf so we can go out to a restaurant, see a movie, but I'm not going to be your girlfriend. Thing is, I love her, and she keeps telling me she loves me. What should I do? Just ignore everything? I know there's another guy she met during spring break, but he's gone now, and she didn't cheat on me physically during break, but I definitely feel like she cheated on me emotionally. Is there a future, or is this one of those only time will tell things?