Originally Posted by
Cat1864
eme, his issues are his to deal with, not yours. You can give him support while he gets help and works through his problems, but you cannot be responsible for fixing them or making it easier for him to live with them.
If he won't take the responsibility of working on his problems, then you need to think of your own well-being and walk away.
I am almost willing to bet that the more you give in to his requests for information the more he demands from you. That is not healthy for you or him. You both should have interests, friends and hobbies outside the relationship that allow you to bring new energy into the relationship. You should be able to share stories of your outings because you want to tell him not because he will think the worst of you if you don't.
There is a huge difference between letting someone know what your general plans are for safety reasons and having to provide an itinerary to show where you are and have been.
I am going to suggest you think about how you really feel about him. Do you love him or the idea of being in a relationship? Have you been so caught up in trying to keep him happy that you may have missed your feelings changing?