To what extent is spanking considered acceptable today?
I don't have children myself but my sister has 2 daughters age 10 and 12. And I was horrified to find out recently that she and her husband spanks both girls when they think the daughters misbehaved too much. And not only the slaps are hard, they pull down their pants and panties for the spanking. I and my sister was spanked but only until the age of about 9. Then our parents stopped.
Although I can understand that a couple of swats on clothed buttocks can be defended I think it is horrible to spank a 12 year old on her naked buttocks.
Is there anything I can do to help these girls and make my sister and her husband stop spanking them?
Also, how accepted is spanking today and to what extent?