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  • Mar 29, 2007, 10:19 AM
    Bobdagurl
    Best Friend Stabs me in the back, Sleeping with my first love w/in a month of breakup
    Ok, So I am new here. Basically, I need help. My ex-boyfriend and I finally cut the cord back in Jan. So, he and I had this big fight (we decided to stay friends after the break-up) and he wanted nothing to do with me because he felt like I wasn't talking to him and all. Well, that lasted for about 3 days then he came back and was like sorry and all that jazz. I had left for NC the day after he apologized, and came back 2 days later. I headed over to my best friends house, in which my ex and her had just "hung out" and they both told me that the day they did since she and I were going to see a movie and well, I was in NC. But I knew something was up when I saw they had been txting all day. So, I asked her point blank if anything was up. Earlier that week, during his and mine fight, I was telling her how much I loved him and all and she told me she wouldn't want anything to do with him and how I deserve better. Well, within in 2 hours of me leaving, he came over, and SHE SLEPT WITH HIM. 2 hours after her telling me all that. Then, again on his birthday with me in the house suffering "almost dieng" ( I had a little much to drink). So, At this point. I am at a lost on what to do. I confronted her on me knowing and she blamed me. Telling me it was none of my business. My ex and I talk and he tells me all the crap she says about me and he was the one who told me.


    What should I do?
  • Mar 29, 2007, 10:25 AM
    always_hot
    Forget Her And Him For That Matter! You Are Not Sappose To Date Or Sleep With Your Friends Ex's. That's All There Is To It. She Suck For Not Controlling Her Hormones With Her Fast ! Move On Girlfriend.
  • Apr 2, 2007, 07:41 AM
    MiiSZTiFFANiE
    That is really messed up. I always told myself to never have a best friend because you can't trust anyone but yourself. And that is true!
  • Apr 2, 2007, 08:16 PM
    haylz-p
    There's a rule on that sort of thing that your mate shuld learn... Hoes before Bro's... which is the first rule for mates... I think you shuld forget about her... your ex on the other hand is all right for telling you what happened and everything but I wouldn't get back with him... he'll probably do it agen... I reckon just forget about them both... u seem like a real cool chik that could find mates easy as... who cares about them both you deserve a lot better girl!

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