My boyfriend is a drug dealer, I love him to death and would do anything for him but everyone thinks he's a bad influence, I've know him just about all my life but sometimes I don't feel like he cares about me, we spend little time together but it's still making me happy to be with him a short time rather than no time, what should I do??

Sorry to be brutal but... you need to distance yourself from this guy.

a) he's a drug dealer-this is illegal, dangerous and whether you like it or not, you may well get dragged into his business

b) everyone thinks he's a bad influence because he probably is, he's letting you see that breaking the law & running the risk of going to jail is acceptable... it is not!

c) you feel he's doesn't care about you? He possible doesn't

d) you don't say if he's a user as well as a dealer? If he is then is a BAD situation to subject yourself to... who knows what he may do when he needs a fix?


Get out. Find a new boyfriend. Live for yourself. Don't delay!

Moomin

I don't believe this is true love. You should love him for his personality. And If he has a bad personality and is mean I'd say leave him. Do you really want someone in your house selling drugs.

Kriscool

Sorry, he is in love with his business,

If he loved you, you would be spending time together.

What you look forward to is he or both of you being in jail, and you visiting him on visitation days, taking over time the couple kids you both end up with to see their dad after he is in and out of jail a dozen times.

He can not respect you, since drug dealers don't respect thierself.

He is trouble and everyone telling you is right, you just don't want to admit it, and move on for some reason I don't understand

You say you love him to death. Well, that may well be the outcome here - your death. Have you honestly thought of that? What is he makes a deal and it goes sour? You know by now that there is always a retribution to pay for such a deal and everyone in the path pays. That is no lie.

If you do not value your own life anymore than that, then you keep walking down the road with this guy. Does not take a genus to write the ending.