I had anal sex mind you my husbands thing isn't small in any means and now my butts bleeding pretty good am I going to be OK?

Get some witch hazel or any astringent (ask the pharmacist) and pad your panties with paper towels.
See a doctor after about 3 days if bleeding hasn't decreased.
You just don't have the elasticity needed by your husband. Tell him that's the end of that.
You could end up with fissures and infection.

What joy said.

If, after this, he insists on anal again. Say no. If he's insistent and you give in. Take it slow, LOTS of lube, ease with finger(s) first. First bit of pain and you stop.