OK so my current girlfriend had liked my younger brother a while before she had ever met me but even though we have been dating for almost 6 months and she claims she doesn't like him at all anymore but she still flirts with him a little( by the way I am 14, she is 13 and my brother is 12x-( ) that is just the background the reall reason I am writing is because today when my brother tried on his new glasses her jaw just dropped and she freaked out but she covered and said that it was " because he looked funny" but I saw the look on her face and I now what she was thinking( by the way I will admit that my brother is a 100 times hotter than me:( ) and I am just wondering is there anything I could do or tips on making her think I look better or something, it is just really annoying me please help if you can.

This is just a mess. This is a case of immature kids pretending to be grown ups. Someone that was actually ready for a relationship wouldn't act like she is doing. Someone that is mature enough for a relationship wouldn't be asking about how to look better than their brother.

Why don't you just end it with her and be a kid for a few more years? You'll have plenty of time for this ridiculous crap when you get older.

Can I ask how old you are?

You can ask... but it doesn't mean I will tell you.

Let's say I'm old enough to have already been through this in my life.

At your age, hot and cool are the superficial attributes you think are important.
As you get older, you will realize that they mean nothing.
Boring stuff like what life means to you, what interests you, what plans you have for the future, and how you express tenderness and caring, will (hopefully) be what matters to you and to the person you want to be with.

I'm in my 60s.

You guys are too young for all of this drama.
Leave the girl alone, problem solved. You can't make yourself cuter than somebody, and this kind of mess with your own brother is not cool. She is too young and so are you

Dude I feel your pain, but seriously it'll even get more annoying in the relationship if you don't leave her... I mean if she liked you for real she wouldn't have done that... she's not faithful well loyal to the relationship either... do't try to change yourself just because of her... plus you're only 14... and I'm pretty sure there are plenty of other girls who thinks you're better looking than your brother, because everyone is different. She's not worth dating... leave her. That's my advice

If she liked your brother, why is she with you. All of this could be insecurity on your part. At any rate this family mess is tacky and you guys are too young. Leave the girl alone. You two are probably just discovering the opposite sex and you're not ready for dating.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

If she liked your brother, why is she with you. All of this could be insecurity on your part. At any rate this family mess is tacky and you guys are too young. Leave the girl alone. You two are probably just discovering the opposite sex and you're not ready for dating.

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I totally agree with you :)