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  • Oct 5, 2013, 03:11 PM
    Rtm7392
    Who's my baby's father
    I had my period April 23 2013; an I had unprotected sex with my friend on May 02 an he didn't pull out; an then on May 05 I had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend an he didn't pull out neither an on May 22 I found out I was pregnant an my due date is Jan 28 2014. I have tried many conception date calendars which said I conceived around May 07 an I don't know which guy is the father of my child ; my friend told me it had to be the guy I had sex with on the 2nd because sperm lives up to 5 to 7 days inside the body an I was 2 weeks on May 7 then my cousin did some counting an said whoever I had sex with on the 5th has to be the father I really am just confused an I know I shouldn't stress but it's been stressin me an It stays on my mind all the time I sometimes forget an then it comes right back up in my head :( could yhu please help me I have never been so embarrassed
  • Oct 5, 2013, 03:18 PM
    Curlyben
    As paternity is in serious doubt and the dates are so close a DNA test will be the ONLY way to make a positive determination.
    Bear in mind that Gestational dating is all based on Best Guess, so NOT hard and fast.
  • Oct 5, 2013, 03:21 PM
    Rtm7392
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Curlyben View Post
    As paternity is in serious doubt and the dates are so close a DNA test will be the ONLY way to make a positive determination.
    Bear in mind that Gestational dating is all based on Best Guess, so NOT hard and fast.

    Thanks
  • Oct 5, 2013, 06:42 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    You need to talk to friends who actually know more. Conception dates are estimates, even at the doctor with a sonogram it is going to be give or take a week at very best, ( often more)

    There is no way to know exactly what day (NO WAY TO TELL)

    These are just too close together. The only way to ever know is a DNA test after the child is born
  • Oct 5, 2013, 07:42 PM
    Rtm7392
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    You need to talk to friends who actually know more. Conception dates are estimates, even at the doctor with a sonogram it is going to be give or take a week at very best, ( often more)

    There is no way to know exactly what day (NO WAY TO TELL)

    These are just too close together. The only way to ever know is a DNA test after the child is born

    Thanks

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