Help! Need advice or suggestions...
I've been with my man for 5 and a half years. At the end of August he left because of problems between his teenage daughter and I. We decided to work things out and he moved back home this past Monday. Last night we had sex, and as much as I wanted him I just couldn't get into it... My problem is- I don't know if it's because I found out he almost was with another woman while we were not together, I even found something he wrote to her. Last night I also smoked weed before we had sex for the first time in awhile so I'm thinking it could've been that too... But I (not to provide too much information) couldn't stay wet and my mind was just not into it. Don't get me wrong, I think my man is sexy and I was craving him all day yesterday, but when it came that time it just didn't feel right... Also, since we've been working things out he hasn't been romantic at all, it feels more like sex than making love.