I was charged (and not convicted )with misdemeanor embezzlement over 10 years ago, I can't get a job to save my life. This was the first and only time Ive ever been in trouble for anything,yet it seems like ill be punished forever with this.
Any ideas?

There are lots of jobs where you won't handle anyone's money or have access to it... you just have to look for those.

Sure it limits you... but that's the price one pays.

What job fields have you been trying so far.

And an arrest, without a conviction ( I assume they dropped charges or you were found not guilty) should not be an issue or even showing up