Why does my boyfriend on ejaculate once. When we have sex everything is normal and very good. He can hold out for a long time from ejaculating, but when he finally does no matter how short or long it's only once. He can not get up again to start again. Is it me? Or is this normal?

Really?

This is pretty normal.

That is how men work, some men can do it again after 20 or 30 minutes, others may need more time.

Why did you think he would do it over again, right away ?

Okay this is normal. I have had sex with the same guy for 10 yrs. I'm only 24. We go a long time and its very good. It's just that other women that I talk to say their men ejaculate so many times during sex and mines only once. I was wondering am I doing something wrong? And how can I get him to ejacualte multiple times. The sex is great, I just want to make it greater :)

They're probably lying to you.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

They're probably lying to you.

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Maybe so. Thanks for the advice.

In a previous thread, you said that he told you he has 'lost the flame' ( https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-766484.html ). Have the two of you worked through that issue or is this question another symptom of issues in your relationship?

If his body isn't up to more, then there isn't much you can do about it. If sex is great, why try to 'fix' it and end up causing problems with unrealistic expectations?

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Originally Posted by Cat1864

In a previous thread, you said that he told you he has 'lost the flame' ( https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-766484.html ). Have the two of you worked through that issue or is this question another symptom of issues in your relationship?

If his body isn't up to more, then there isn't much you can do about it. If sex is great, why try to 'fix' it and end up causing problems with unrealistic expectations?

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I would say it's a work in progress. It's not a huge issue but it is something we both want to happen. Our relationship is getting better. And I also want the sex to be all the way satisfying without a doubt.

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Originally Posted by odinn7

They're probably lying to you.

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I would be a little more certain abou tit than probibly... just like many of them will lie about how long it is until you get out a ruller and measure it yourself.

We call it boasting and BS.

How many guys do you think would freely admit they have 4" and can only last for 3 mintues on a good day?

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Originally Posted by smoothy

I would be a little more certain abou tit than probibly.......just like many of them will lie about how long it is until you get out a ruller and measure it yourself.

We call it boasting and BS.

How many guys do you think would freely admit they have 4" and can only last for 3 mintues on a good day?

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Your right!