I've been with this girl for 3 years. We have a daughter together. The thing is I still have feelings for her and love her very much and she knows that. 3 weeks ago I happened to drive by her parents store and there she was kissing another guy so I left. The next day I asked her who that was? She replied that was her boyfriend. I was shocked to hear that she's has moved on.

I really can't take this anymore, its messing with me mentally. I think about her everyday. When I see my daughter, I think of her. I don't know what to do anymore. Its driving me nuts. How do I cope with this.


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Once the shock and hurt has worn off and the reality of it has been dealt with, you will begin to accept she has moved on and you need to do the same.

She has moved on, so you need to also.

You go to no contact, even to see child, no need to talk to the ex.

I have been through this already, I have a 4 year old with my ex and she moved on after weeks but claimed they were just friends. Later found out they were in a relationship. I think it was easier for me because he was ugly (superficial I know) what you have to do is trya and talk to a lot of girls and take your mind of it. Trust me though if she has moved that quick it won't last and it will happen again. My ex has finished with that guy, maily due to the fact she slept with me again and he found out but try not to do this it only messes with your head more. Good luck pal and try and concentrate on your daughter as much as you can with out showing how annoyed you are about the other guy. Also I spoke to my exs fella and told him do what you want with her but don't go near my daughter for a while and thaqt worked well.