I miscarried at three weeks a little while back. It has been since November so I thought that everything was over with. The miscarriage really took its toll on me, but I kept busy and tried to push it off. It did bother me though that I continued to have some strange differences in my body. Now it seems to be really hitting me that I lost my baby. I have nightmares every night and I'm haunted by the fact that the father never cried and never shows any emotion on the subject. His first reaction to the news broke my heart and I felt so guilty that I had lost our child. Now I'm having even more strange differences in my body, and someone asked me if I was certain that everything was over. I am that I miscarried, but when I told a friend that I really trust that I've always ovulated more than normal in a month they asked me if I could have had twins and only miscarried one. NOw I'm scared I'm only 17. Help me please.

First of αll go to α doctor--- how mαny months were you when you hαd this 'miscαrriαge'?

November! What differences have you noticed?

Why haven't you been to see a doctor? 17 or older the first thing you should have done was go to the ER and boyfriend in his right mind should have taken you. You should make and app. ASAP. Also just because he didn't react crying or upset doesn't mean he doesn't feel. Guys have their own way of expressing themselves.

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Originally Posted by Lacey19

November! What differences have you noticed?

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Actually saraispiel19... she did say how far along she was... it says

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I miscarried at three weeks a little while back.

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:) And my opinion is go to the doctor and find out for sure.

You need to seek professional health. Your boyfriend not cying doesn't mean that he didn't care. Men react to sad situations different then weman. But Urstruly is right... he should have taken you to the hospital to make sure that everything was all right.

Thank you all for your advice. I don't know if I can address this with him, because we aren't together any longer. However I did ask my best friend for some help, and she is taking me to the doctor as soon as she can. I am very relieved because you were all so nice to me. It is hard to figure things out when you feel like you can't take anymore and you don't have anyone to turn to. Thanks for being so kind you encouraged me to do what is right and go to the doctor even if I am a little afraid. I hope that I can return the favor some day. Wish me luck, I'm really nervous!