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  • Sep 18, 2013, 10:34 AM
    anna73
    How to treat this boy?
    My friend has met some one. She invited me to their second date and he invited his friend too. We had a great time. I really liked his friends personality. He is such a nice guy. After we got home he called my friend and said they had a great time too, but then his friend said I was very rude to him! I know he was kidding but I got angry. I didn't expected him to say this. I really didn't say anything bad. I tried to forget that.

    After a while my friend told me that he asks a lot about you, and he always look for a good time to meet you! I was shocked. My friend said we're going to go out tomorrow please come. His friend will come too. I didn't know what to say. I accepted. Now I'm so confused. I don't know how should I treat him. Please help me. I'm confused to death
  • Sep 18, 2013, 10:44 AM
    Wondergirl
    You'll be nice as usual and not ask for any apology or explanation. His teasing or whatever it was is past history and over with and wasn't said to you. You don't even know about it. He was joking, Right?
  • Sep 18, 2013, 10:50 AM
    anna73
    Yeah.but the problem is that he said that he likes you but he doesn't know that I have told you.it's a very complicated situation :((

    >moderator note<

    The friend using Anna's account and username should get her own, as this is confusing
  • Sep 18, 2013, 10:54 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by anna73 View Post
    yeah.but the problem is that idin said that he likes you but he doesn't know that i have told you.it's a very complicated situation :((

    No, it's not. Why complicated?
  • Sep 18, 2013, 10:58 AM
    anna73
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    No, it's not. Why complicated?

    What should I say? How should I act? I really don't know.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 11:02 AM
    N0help4u
    Just be yourself. Maybe ask Amir a few simple questions such as how many brothers and sisters do you have? He mayhave made that comment jokingly or meaning it because hr could have felt you didn't give him much attention.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 11:03 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by anna73 View Post
    what should i say? how should i act?! i really don't know.

    Act like you always do. Ask him what foods he likes (baklava? Chocolate?), ask him about any pets he might have, ask him if he likes sports and which ones, ask him which movies he has liked -- get to know him and listen to his answers. Don't create drama where there is none.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 11:24 AM
    Homegirl 50
    What is the problem, you said you know he was kidding so just be yourself. Don't create a problem where there is none.
  • Sep 18, 2013, 11:32 AM
    talaniman
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ke-763570.html

    Whatever happen to the boyfriend you don't like? Just go have fun like you did last time and don't worry about what this fellow said in confidence to your friend. Obviously it was misunderstood if he wants to go out with you again.

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