Conflict to other people

Don't put others on the defensive. Like instead of accusing with "you always....." Say something more like "I feel that whenever you....."

You can be passive in your interactions with others, or you deal with them in a cool, calm, and collected manner and in control of yourself while you think before you act or speak. Then you can RESOLVE the conflict in a reasonable manner, or remove yourself from the situation entirely.

Some people you will find love drama and conflict. They are best avoided.