I lost 2 brothers at 12 and at 19. I was going with a married man and felt secure with him and got pregnant at16 and I had to get rid of.

Now I have a boyfriend of three years but have had two big fights in the last 12 months. He has gone from me and our daughter. Now my family don't want me to get back with him. I don't know what to do.

I lost 2 brothers @12 and @19 I was going with a married man felt secure with him and got pregnant @16. AND I had to get rid now. I have a boyfriend of three years, but have had two big fights and the last 12 months. He has gone from me and our daughter now, and my family don't want me to get back with him I don't know what to do

You were going with a married man at 19 but got pregnant to him at 16? Now you have a boyfriend of 3 years -----meaning you would be around 22 now? Are you wanting to get back with a boyfriend you got with after the married man or are you wanting to get back with the married man? Your post seems to jump around so I can't tell who is who or even who the baby daddy is.

Maybe feeling low means this:
I lost a brother when I was 12, and another brother when I was 19. When I was 16 I was seeing a married man and got pregnant. I did not keep the baby. I have now been with a man for three years, but we have had two big fights in the last year. He has left me and our daughter. My family does not want me to get back with him, I'm not sure what to do.