I need help fast. My girlfriend broke up with me and I loved her. We both loved each other. I really miss her. I'm really depressed. I explained it to my best friends but they say to just get over her, and they have never had gf's. I've only told my friends that are girls, their nice but not enough. Please help me.

Might sound harsh, but get over it.
This might be the first, but it certainly won't be the last..
It's all part of growing up I'm afraid.

This is why 13 yr olds are too young to date. They are too immature to handle the inevitable break ups that come at this age. You really haven't a clue what love is at this point. You will probably break up many times in the next few years. You need to get over it and move on.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

This is why 13 yr olds are too young to date. They are too immature to handle the inevitable break ups that come at this age. You really haven't a clue what love is at this point. You will probably break up many times in the next few years. You need to get over it and move on.

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Well It didn't help me get over her I need things to do to get her off my mind I still miss her and I hide my feelings from my parents so they don't over react because my parents do. Do that its kind of annoying lol.

Did your parents give you permission to date?

As far as taking your mind off it, concentrate on school and school activities.

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Did your parents give you permission to date?

As far as taking your mind off it, concentrate on school and school activities.

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Yea this helped a little and yes my parents know I was dating I have to ask them before I do it and I don't have any classes with her so that's good but we cross paths all the time and she hangs out with my friends so its kind of hard:/

Part of dating as your age group calls it is breaking up. As the other guys say this is but the first of many so get use to it, and stay busy with friends family, and activities you like.

Just don't go acting all sappy and depressed around people. If you are old enough to date, then you are old enough to deal with break ups maturely.

Eat a tub of ben and jerrys it always helps, but honestly try and move on if you both loved each other why did you break up?

Listen. I'm 13 and have had my fair share of break ups. Now I know you should just move on. It does hurt but there will be tonnes more coming...