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  • Sep 12, 2013, 03:02 PM
    theanonamos
    Does my supposedly straight friend like me?
    So I told him that I was bisexual a few weeks ago, and ever since then, he has been touching my arm, rubbing my back a lot, even laying his head on my shoulder. He invited me on two (very expensive) trips with him... for free. He follows me around ALL the time.

    He sometimes asks me about how I'm dealing with my sexuality, and to which I simply say, I'm just living my life. He talks about girls sometimes, but makes a lot of body contact with me, and told me that he has had questions of his sexuality in the past, but determined he was straight... Not long after I told him I was bi, he broke up with his girl friend of 2 years.

    I'm not going to lie, I'm VERY attracted to him. Should I tell him? Or should I just let something happen? Does my friend like me possibly, or am I just over-analyzing?
  • Sep 13, 2013, 05:43 AM
    Oliver2011
    "He sometimes asks me about how I'm dealing with my sexuality, and to which I simply say, I'm just living my life." Nice. A confident answer to that question is always refreshing.

    Your situation has always been and will continue to be a tough one. Just because you are confident in who you are, he is not at the same point in his life. If you push this he may back into saying he is straight and that could ruin your friendship. Guys that aren't ready to deal with their sexuality have to deal with it on their own timeframe. He obviously feels comfortable with you so I would guess the best thing you can do is continue being your confident self.

    And if it turns out that he's straight well you still have a good friend, and that is a good thing.

    Good luck!

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