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  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:00 PM
    miszjen03
    What can my husband do to get his children or at least visitation rights?
    My husband has a court order to see his children every weekend but the mother doesn't let him see his children let alone talk to them on the phone he does pay child support but what can he do to get his children or at least visitation rights?
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:22 PM
    smoothy
    He takes her to court... you said he already has vistation rights... then she is violating a court order. THey will enforce the rights they already gave him.

    He should have already known this and done that the first time she refused. They can just as easily modify their order givng custody to him if she refuses to abide by it.

    Contact your lawyer... I bet this stops really quick shortly after he does that.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:25 PM
    miszjen03
    Yes he has a court order from a judge but she won't let him see them she took them away because he moved on with his life and when she found out that he was getting married she took the children away
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:30 PM
    smoothy
    How does this tie in with your other post where the father wants nothing to do with the child and your new husband wants to adopt? I thought the username was familiar.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...ld-766873.html
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:37 PM
    miszjen03
    To different questions he wants to see his children and I want to help him and my kids fathers won't give them the time of day and I was never married to him this is my first marriage
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:40 PM
    smoothy
    OK, it was mighty confusing before you answered that.

    My answer stands... he already has a court order... she is in contempt of court... his lawyer petitions the court detailing that and things get really ugly for her really fast. The court does not like people who defy them.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:44 PM
    miszjen03
    Ok thank you so he has to get another lawyer
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:46 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by miszjen03 View Post
    Ok thank you so he has to get another lawyer

    Yes...
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:46 PM
    miszjen03
    And I'm sorry I didn't mean to confuse you I thought it would be better to start a different one so I won't confuse on my question

    Ok will do thank you
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:47 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by miszjen03 View Post
    And im sorry I didn't mean to confuse you I thought it would be better to start a different one so I won't confuse on my question

    Trust me... I HAD to ask... we actually have had a number of people intentionally making posts with conflicting information in the past.

    Thanks for clarifying it.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:48 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Trust me...I HAD to ask...we actually have had a number of people intentionally making posts with conflicting information in the past.

    Or people just having fun and playing games.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 12:52 PM
    miszjen03
    I understand but thank you for your help also do I need to get a lawyer as well
  • Sep 12, 2013, 01:11 PM
    ScottGem
    Yes, YOU NEED a lawyer to process the adoption. It could be the same lawyer handling his visitation issues. But he doesn't necessarily need an attorney to cite her for contempt of court. He simply petitions the court to hold her in contempt for not obeying the existing visitation order.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 01:42 PM
    miszjen03
    Ok thank you so much
  • Sep 12, 2013, 02:35 PM
    miszjen03
    How does he petition the courts
  • Sep 12, 2013, 05:08 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by miszjen03 View Post
    How does he petition the courts

    Well that depends on local court rules. The best thing would be to go to the local Family Court and ask the court clerk what he needs to do to file a contempt complaint.
  • Sep 12, 2013, 06:30 PM
    AK lawyer
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by miszjen03 View Post
    Ok thank you so he has to get another lawyer

    Only if his first lawyer won't do it.
  • Sep 13, 2013, 04:23 AM
    miszjen03
    Ok now I'm confused do he needs another lawyer or not I was told he doesn't
  • Sep 13, 2013, 04:43 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by miszjen03 View Post
    Ok now I'm confused do he needs another lawyer or not I was told he doesn't

    Whenever one goes to court, it is better to go with a lawyer. Especially if the other side has their own representation. But, if he's just trying to get her cited for contempt, he probably does not need an attorney. However, if he used an attorney to get the original custody/visitation order, it would be a good idea to have that attorney help him follow through.

    Bottom line is he can probably file the contempt petition without an attorney.
  • Sep 13, 2013, 05:05 AM
    miszjen03
    Ok thank you

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