Hi I'm 18
N hv started masturbating frm last 3-4 months
N have been doing it regularly daily uh cn say from last 1 month
But d problem is that nw a dayz m hving a lot of abdomenal pain and back andlegs pain as well
N my periods are also coming late
Is it because of excessive masturbation??
N also while masturbating I'm able to insert a whole finger nw..
Have I lost my virginity??
Is it something to be tensed about?

Are you masturbating while typing that... because that was just unreadable.

Please use good English, and do not text your posts. I almost removed it as unreadable.

You lose your virginity only when there is penile penetration.

As for the pain etc. please go to your doctor for a checkup and diagnosis.

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Hi I'm 18
And I have started masturbating from last 3-4 months
And have been doing it regularly , daily you can say from last 1 month
But the problem is that now a days I am having a lot of abdomenal pain and back and legs pain as well..
And my periods are also coming late.
Is it because of excessive masturbation??
& also while masturbating I'm able to insert a whole finger now..
Have I lost my virginity??
Is it something to be tensed about?

Thank you for retyping your post.

As I said earlier, You lose your virginity only when there is penile penetration.

As for the pain etc. please go to your doctor for a checkup and diagnosis.

The abdominal pain and leg pain have nothing to do with masturbation. Also, like WG said, you lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse.

Now, if you're talking about your hymen, it depends on what you're doing. It is possible to tear your hymen while masturbating. It's also possible to tear it riding your bike, falling, riding a horse, playing any sports, etc. etc. etc. A hymen is not a sign of virginity.

Many women are born without one, or tear it when they're children doing one or another of the activities I posted. A hymen does not indicate virginity. Someone who hasn't had sex is a virgin.

As for the pain you're experiencing, if you're concerned you should see a doctor.

Thank you for your advice